This is my english presentation! I decided to talk about lovvvve. Cause it's the closest topic to my heart for now :D hehehe.

HEREGOES!:-

I'm gonna talk about Lovvvvvvve.
Okay soo.
Has anyone fallen in love before?
Has anyone experienced true love?
Should we fall in love at our age?
Why do parents object to their children falling in love?

Very frequently we, teenagers are not able to distinguish between a crush and true love at our age.

What is the difference between a crush and true love?

Crush is fun, you day dream, but nothing really serious. The person is perfect in your eyes.

True love is when you know the person and all of their faults, but still love them anyway. You can't live without this person.


What is love!

Love is chemistry between two persons and it's tough to define.

When you're old cause you've been with that person for super long time. Another sort of love sets in. A love like an old slipper that fits your foot nice and cozy.

There are different types of Lovvvvvvve.

To be "in love" means to see the other person as someone who can fulfill desires for you.

To "love" means that you are willing to make sacrifices and accommodations for that person for no other reason than to see them happy.


My mommy has always advised me that falling in love is fun and very nice.. all sweet, warm and fuzzy.. that is when all is well.. BUT what happens when you fall out of love.. that is when you feel as if a thousand knives are piercing through your young fragile heart and every sad song would make you cry buckets of tears. Can you handle it? Are you strong enough to handle the pain and hurt that comes from a broken relationship? When you are in love, you will always think that the relationship will never end and when it does, will you be able to take the hurt, the pain, the disappointment, the sense of betrayal..

That is why some parents do not approve of their teenagers falling in love. Your parents can't take the pain and hurt for you when you fall out of love. It pains them a lot to see their children suffer but yet not able to do a thing for them. At a superficial level, their school work suffers and their health may take a toll. At a more serious level, some go into deep depression and may be in the danger of suicide. Some teenagers may not be able to take the pain and instead, take the route to self destruction like taking drugs or alcohol or self-mutilation.

Parents may also worry when their children are in love and some may not be able to manage and handle romance and school work. They may spend too much time on the phone or MSN talking to each other or going out every day after school and thereby neglecting their school work. Their future may be ruined unless they are able to balance the two well. If you are going out with someone now, better remember to BALANCE love and studies or your parents may just ban you from falling in love. You must earn their trust in you and your loved one. You must convince them that you are mature enough to handle romance at this age which is totally not easy.

ADVICE IF YOU ARE HURT IN A RELATIONSHIP

It's painful to let go, but it's unrealistic to put your life on hold to wait for someone who may or may not change their mind. What matters is is that at this point in time, they don't want to be with you.

CAUSE

"If you love someone let him free", if he is yours he will come back, if not he was never meant to be yours.

HAHHAA then there's advice for breakups!

DO take your time in healing but get on with your life little by little. DO NOT stop your life just to mourn or wallow. DO NOT stop your life to focus on him, what he's doing or to beat yourself up. Keep yourself busy; surround yourself with friends and DO NOT jump right into another relationship.

You are a good person and you did everything you could. Sometimes you can give someone everything and they just can't appreciate it or accept it and you have to, unfortunately, deal with it. It hurts and its unfair but its a part of life. You WILL be okay.

And for those of you who are in love, DON'T NEGLECT YOUR SCHOOL WORK, Know when to stop the phone calls and MSN sweetly and on a nice note. Go out in group dates and only when you have finished all your homework, projects and revision. So time management is important. And don't forget your other friends, you will need them when you are in a bad patch with your loved one or when you need advice when you are muddled or just to keep you company when things are not going well. You need to convince your parents you are able to handle love!

Another piece of advice for those in love and wish to remain in love.. you have to be very thoughtful, considerate, very patient, tolerant and forgiving. Remember the Anniversaries, Birthdays, Valentine's Day and Christmas and the little gifts that go with it. Be appreciative of the little things that he does for you. Boys are from Mars and Girls are from Venus so what we deem important may not be important to them and vice versa. We may not think a rugby game, a jamming session or a game of dota is important.. but to them, it may be their life! So a little research and understanding goes a long way.

And of course, stay true and honest to him once you have committed to the relationship or someone is going to get hurt.

I may be 13 and I do not proclaim to be a guru in love but I think what I said today may be quite right! Perhaps you may want to think about it! If you are not in love, you may want to think whether you want to fall in love at 13 or not and whether you can handle it? Or you may want to wait till you are older.

If you are in love, remember what I said above- Balance Romance and School Work, Be forgiving and Patient. And thoughtful. And most of all. Be True! And I WISH YOU THE BEST OF LUCK!